The Process

I (Ruth) have been thinking about this phrase “Be Present” and how it applies to my life. I will admit I struggle with this part of my life at times, come on I know you do too. It’s ok to admit it….. we are human, but how can we start to change and truly be present? How many of you have ever thought, I will be content when I can slow down and I will be present when….

I get the new job.

I finish my deadline at work.

I reach my personal goals.

I get enough followers.

I pass this big test.

I buy my dream home.

I find Mr. Right.

I marry Mr. Right.

When we have this mindset, we will never truly enjoy the moment. We are always waiting for contentment to come rather than enjoying the process. But what I am learning is the to enjoy the process. Enjoy the journey, no matter what stage you are in learn to enjoy it.

Trevor Hudson describes being present:

“Being present involves letting go of our constant preoccupations, immersing ourselves in the here and now, and giving ourselves wholeheartedly to whatever is at hand…It’s about becoming more aware, alert, awake to the fullness of the immediate moment. If we are with another person, it means engaging with him or her with all our heart, out mind, our soul, and our strength. Such wholehearted attention requires patience, time, and disciplined effort. And it is one of the greatest gifts that we can give to those around us.”

This reminded me that my life here on earth is so short. I don’t want to spend time waiting for contentment to if/when something happens in my life. I don’t want to miss out on creating memories or moments with my daughter, family, and friends. I want to have a heart of gladness in the moment, being present, and I know that God wants that for us too.

Today I want to encourage you to be present. Look people in their eyes more than you look at your phone. Find the joy in the moment, and in the journey because our journey is with You.

 

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